Loneliness- the thing everyone despises and, yet, we have all felt it at one point or another. Lately, I've felt it. It's been a year since I've dated and at times it feels like 5 years! Oh, the thoughts that have gone through my head.
"Where is he?"
"Um, hello, can't you see I'm all single?"
"Ugh, being single is the worst!"
"I'll be forever alone, FOREVER ALONE, I SAY!"
While moping around the house, listening to the saddest songs I could find of the Civil Wars, Regina Spektor, Katy Perry, The Beatles, etc., a song came up on my playlist and changed my world.
It was the song, "You're Gonna Miss This" by Trace Atkins. If you've never heard it before, here's the chorus:
You're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back
You're gonna wish these days hadn't gone by so fast
These are some good times
So take a good look around
You may not know it now
But you're gonna miss this
Amazing, isn't it? How one simple song can just turn your whole day around. Today I find myself full of hope for the future. Anytime the loneliness demon comes back around I remember, "Know what? One day I'm going to miss this alone time." If you find yourself eating that pint of Tom & Jerry's and listening to "The One that Got Away" I encourage you to throw some nice clothes on, make a quick, happy playlist, and GET OUT THE HOUSE! If you still need more encouragement, google search 50 great reasons to be single. After reading one of those, you'll put on that "SINGLE AND LOVING IT" face, I promise!! Now lovelies, Go out there and strut your stuff!!